
Following Christmas, many South African celebrities shared their festive family moments on social media. Notably, Ayanda Ncwane, the widow of the late gospel musician Sfiso Ncwane and a former star of The Real Housewives of Durban, shared lovely family pictures on Instagram. She captioned them: “From our family to yours, wishing you a safe and merry Christmas.”
While the images radiated holiday cheer and family bonding, they also stirred conversations about past family dynamics, particularly concerning the noticeable absence of Nothile, Sfiso’s daughter from a previous relationship.
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Family Dynamics and Public Opinion
In her Christmas photos, Ayanda posed with her two sons, Ngcweti and Mawenza, all in coordinating holiday outfits. Yet, many followers observed that Nothile, Sfiso’s daughter with singer Nonku Williams, was notably missing from the celebrations.
There is a widely recognized strain between Ayanda and Nonku, much of which has played out on The Real Housewives of Durban. A particularly dramatic reunion episode featured Nonku and her mother addressing Ayanda about lingering grievances regarding Sfiso, particularly about claims of his neglect towards Nothile.

Regardless, Ayanda maintains that she has fulfilled all her responsibilities as Sfiso’s widow and feels no obligation towards Nonku or her family. Nothile’s absence at this year’s Christmas gathering further compounds public concerns about the fraught relationships between Ayanda and Sfiso’s other children.
Observers have noted that while Ayanda often advocates for family solidarity, these persistent exclusions tell a different story.
Exploring Past Controversies
Since Sfiso Ncwane’s passing, Ayanda’s life has been met with both admiration and criticism:
Inheritance Disputes: Following Sfiso’s death in 2016, Ayanda was accused by his family of withholding his estate from his other children. Nothile’s role in these accusations was especially significant.
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The “Bluetick” Incident: On The Real Housewives of Durban, Nonku revealed that Ayanda overlooked her attempts to nurture a relationship between Nothile and her stepbrothers, which sparked heated discussions online.
Allegations of Exclusion: Sfiso’s mother, Fikile Ncwane, accused Ayanda of neglecting her and Sfiso’s extended family during critical events, including the unveiling of his tombstone.
Skin Lightening Speculations: Recent Instagram posts by Ayanda have led to discussions about her appearance, with many commenters speculating on perceived changes in her skin tone, reigniting debates over beauty standards and societal pressures.
Public Reactions to Ayanda Ncwane’s Christmas Post
Social media buzzed with diverse reactions to Ayanda’s festive family snapshot:
@gabril_thuu remarked: “She should ease up on the creams.”
@valezvee commented: “The bluetick was intense this Christmas.”
@DawgTeaBag queried: “Christmas is about family; why is Nothile consistently excluded?”
@Sultryteej highlighted: “She appears so pale now.”
@KgomotsoMabela questioned: “How can you celebrate without recognizing all of Sfiso’s children?”
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In spite of the controversies, Ayanda remains a notable figure in South Africa. As a successful businesswoman and philanthropist, she continues to honor her late husband’s legacy while raising her sons.
Nonetheless, ongoing tensions with Sfiso’s extended family and the repeated exclusion of Nothile from family events perpetually raise concerns over her commitment to family unity.
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